In order not be upset or angry to a person because of what another person said about him is not to believe immediately. Allow yourself to have the benefit of finding out yourself. Most of the time the warning from political friends are myth. Most of the time the warning from true friends are true. However, their view is just incomplete until your view is at hand. Nevertheless, getting upset or being angry is a choice. It depends on the malignance of the sinister. How much damage can it cause when it persist? It’s worth counting 1 to 10 before blowing your horn. Although there are wicked people who do not get the picture even when slapping them on their faces. Either they are stubborn or just so proud. Learning from their mistakes is impossible because they just blame others for their shortfall.
“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”
- Wayne Dyer
Probably what Wayne had said won’t get in to your stubborn head when you just pass the message to others.
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